Iconoclasts in Isolation
I’ve lived most of my adult life as an iconoclast. The downside of that approach is isolation. That means when you question or expose someone’s sacred cow, you are shunned by many.
This is not a rant that it shouldn’t be that way. It just is.
I can attest that when you travel a lonesome road, there aren’t many welcoming Inns on your journey.
If you’re being contrary on purpose, that’s not iconoclasm, that’s just being a dick.
If your iconoclasm is authentic, you will have a plethora of facts to back you up. If you’re just a blowhard, your positions will be blown away by the lightest of winds.
Iconoclasts don’t have a union. in fact, most of them are independent operators, not joiners. Some would consider them lonely, and some are. Others are so comfortable in their own skin that being on their own is a freedom that few people will ever enjoy. I’m reminded of what The Grasshopper offered many moons ago: “Alone is a fact; lonely is a state of mind.”
I readily agree with the English poet John Donne that “No man is an island.” Other people are essential to our growth and existence, but rarely the ones who worship glossy facades and fake gods. Sad to report that I find they are the overwhelming majority, which leaves iconoclasts in small company.
If you bury your iconoclasm, you are part of the walking dead. It needs to be expressed or it will eat you from the inside out.
Speak up if it’s from the heart and has legs to stand on. Not doing so will leave you alone with your thoughts which keeps you isolated from your creativity.
Just a recommendation to my non-iconoclastic friends. Going along to get along is truly a lonely existence.
All the best,
John
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