What’s The One Thing That Changed Your Life For The Better? - Grasshopper
It’s out of character for The Grasshopper to ask a question but this one is so worthy of reflection.
What is the one thing? Was it an
event? Something you saw? Something someone said to you? Something you read? Or
even a scene from a movie.
What is it that got you moving in
a different direction than you were heading? You may have several examples but
my request is to distill them down to one major turning point.
It’s not like you were searching
for this answer but POW there it was in an instant and dead center in the
I have several that instantly
opened my eyes to new directions, some from my career in radio and some from
authors and workshop leaders. For example, I interviewed for a radio job in the
late 70s and the program director, after listening to my audition tape, asked
if I was attempting to imitate a popular broadcaster of the time. I replied, “Yes.”
His words that changed my direction were short and to the point. He said, “As
hard as you try, you’ll never be him. But as hard as he tries, he’ll never be
you.” From that moment forward, I found and developed my own style.
But if I had to boil it down to
the one thing that changed my life, it was a question from Jerry Stocking
just a few years ago. I was attending a 5-day workshop he was conducting and I
can’t remember what I said, but what he said back to me I’ll never forget. He
asked, “What is your purpose in speaking?”
In an instant, it became apparent
to me the amount of purposeless speaking that permeated my life. Up until that
point, opening my mouth and letting words fall out without purpose was the norm
rather than the exception for me. In a moment, it became crystal clear how much
can be left unsaid, leaving what is said more purposeful.
I encourage you to find your own
examples and your “one thing.” It’s valuable to reflect on it from time to time
to remind yourself that there is always something or someone serendipitously
waiting to assist you to move in a new direction. This reflection may just open
your eyes and ears to the next “one thing.”
All the best,
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